Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:54 am Post subject: a small summary of why i dissapeared
my step daughter accused me of certain things even i thought were impossible, my life has been devasted we are back in the concrete jungle in a rough council estate, i have had a break down and not coping very well i have been put on some really nasty drugs. i thought for the long term members you ought to know. I didnt want to post this and only one member knows the whole story, we have lost our land and contry home, animals etc. and ended up in the sort of council estate where you wouldnt dare say hello to your neighbours.
I am innocent of the allegations against me and will keep on fighting to prove this. my children are my only concern as those of you that knew me will know what my land and my girls riding lessons meant to me!
I still keep an eye on the forum but feel like i have nothing to add as I feel very alone now,
I hope you all understand without predjudice what I am going through and I hope to be back on day with pigs, chooks landrovers and tractors
I am sorry to hear this Jerry. There are times when life throws absolute cr*p at you and you just can't dodge it. All you can do is to try and be yourself, and hold your head up high, and eventually things might work out right. I can imagien it is absolutely HELL living where you are at the moment, but can I make a suggestion. I don't know what you are doing for work, but for several years I lived in tied accommodation, when I worked with horses. This didn't give me a wage at the time (just the bungalow) and I also had to have a part time typing job to bring home the bacon, but I wonder if you could try and find something similar. There are often jobs going for wife as housekeeper or nanny or cook or carer to old biddy, husband handyman or gardener, in The Lady or Horse and Hound, or doubtless on internet sites these days. I wonder if that is an avenue worth exploring to get you back into the countryside? Meanwhile (((HUGS))) from me, who only knows you in passing but sends good wishes anyway . . . Jennie _________________ http://codlinsandcream.blogspot.com/
Oh Chickens, I'm so sorry, I can't really imagine what its been like for you. Please do keep popping in, even just to say hello and have some virtual hugs.
I'm sending lots of hugs, positive thoughts and good wishes for your future.
A friend of ours is in a very similar circumstance, his wife accusing him of all sorts of nasties. Bless him, he is the most lovely person you could hope to meet. All I can say is you know whether you can hold your head up high or not. I imagine you can so, fight the depression and get out there.
Don't isolate yourself, the very least you can do is come into the shed and have a natter It really does help
Thanks all for your good wishes, its very hard on us all my wife, kids, friends etc are all affected by this, but we are coping and one day will get back what we had, the boxing gloves are on and we are fighting hard, I get a bit low sometimes hence the original post. It is not really something I wished to discuss but had to get it off my chest!
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