The Potting Shed

Daisy Bell · Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:10 am Post subject:

I am lucky in the respect that my husband 12 years moved out the beginning of august ,it was muteral and we still get on and i wouldnt have it any other way ,we have a child together and we both know that he would be the only one to lose out should we fall out,.
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mogs · Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:29 am Post subject:

if the situation in the marriage was abusive, then a police escort is the only way to go......

i have been there, had my life threatened by my ex, and the police were happy to step in....they did need proof tho beforehand, but the records they had were enough.....i had had many hospital visits with broken bones and bruising from him over the 10 years we were married, and lots of photos the police had taken of actual harm he had caused me.

i was worried at the time, because the police were not on the top of the favourite peoples list with our lot....and walking onto a site with an escort was a bit hairy i can tell you.

we had tried negotiations with families, but to be honest, it got us nowhere, and there was always the threat of a war being started..

everything turned out fine in the end, that was back in '81 and we all speak to each other again now....well we have to really as we do tend to bump into each other alot at sales etc.

taking a man with you, whether b/f or not, could inflame the situation, but on the other hand, taking a female with you might make you vulnerable......a person of authority might be the way to go.

morlan75 · Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:06 pm Post subject:

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sparhawkiw · Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:54 am Post subject:

I am sorry I can't offer any advice but personally I would beware of putting issues on computer forums as they can be read by anybody unless it is in members only sections, & even then it is far too easy to "not be who you appear to be, or to create a different identity" ...

Don't worry, I think Polgara will vouch for me on this & another couple of forums ...
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mogs · Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 7:51 am Post subject:

good advice there.......

polgara · Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 8:21 am Post subject:

I do agree especially as there are pictures etc that are for all to see. I think generalisations are better & PMs even better. Smile